There are times when a poet must make a stand and say, “This has happened without my cognisance and I will not accept it!” Today has not been the best of days. Today I got a note from a patron. Common enough, especially from her, as she was always quick to praise, swift to encourage. But today the note had a bitter flavour. She was sitting awaiting death. A week? Longer?
And what can a poet do? A poet can protest, a poet can stand tall and say firmly that this will not do. A poet can bang the table with his wine glass obvious of the fact it has shattered and the pieces lie glistening but incoherent, shards of dreams never now to be dreamt.
Others have known Sue for longer than I, others will doubtless feel the grief more keenly, will mourn longer, but my job as a poet is not to throw myself into grief but to set a scaling ladder against the walls of uncaring time and fix it in place with my contempt for the mere trammels of mortality. I cast my words into the face of eternity.
To me she was all a patron should be. Yes a patron who pours you white wine with a generous hand and laughs at your jokes is to be prized. But the patron who shares your work with their friends, who tells them, “Come here and see what I found,” that is a patron to treasure.
And now what? I think of that house in Port Naain (on Vincent Crescent where Dilbrook opens out and the ground rises a little). I see her still in her garden, cosseting her great hound and casting occasional glances north where, in the far distance, on a clear day you can still see the mountains of her youthful home.
But there is a door we must all walk through, one way or another, and that door hangs open and beckoning. But poets cheat. Yes we walk through that door like others. We too wait to see what the other side is like, its views and vistas, its salons, its gardens. But still we cheat.
A thousand years from now, some young fool seeking words to woo a lover, will pull a book from a shelf and flick desperately through the yellowing pages. In their quest they will have disturbed the runs of small rodents, the hunting grounds of arachnids and will doubtless have made a myriad of lesser creatures homeless. But as they scribble down my words, a faint flicker of the poet will live on. I have talked and argued, drank wine and wept, with poets three thousand years dead.
Wherever words are treasured, wherever people still delve into the forgotten corners and grasp with joy the volume they find, a writer cannot die.
Indeed when one writes this sort of thing, one normally finishes with the name of the person, along with the year of birth and death. For me that is impossible. As a gentleman, what knowledge would I have of a lady’s year of birth? As a poet how am I expected to know when her words will cease to be read?
So I have heard the news, I renounce it, I nail my angry words to the gates of years and I laugh in the face of mere mortal certainties.
If you have tears, prepare to shed them now. I have spoken and can say no more.
Many of us share your sentiments Jim about a patron and friend who we can only comfort from a distance. Sue has so many words more to share with us, but leaves behind an amazing legacy of not just words but kindness and motivation to make the most of every day.
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Yes, I realise I speak for many, and hopefully Sue realised it as well
I wrote it when she sent me the email telling me she might have a week to live, and I sent it to her and asked her permission to post it when the time came.
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A lovely tribute Jim… and a fitting one.
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Thanks
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Sue will live on, in her work and our memories…
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❤
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You’re right Jim. Sue will live on in our hearts until the end of our days…
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Reblogged this on Stevie Turner and commented:
I’m re-blogging Tallis Steelyard’s (Jim Webster) poignant tribute to Sue Vincent today. Sue had over 19,000 followers on WordPress, and she faced the inevitability of death with much courage, even apologising a few weeks before she died for lingering on. She was a year younger than myself, and left this world too early. However, we must be happy for her that she is now free from pain and suffering. R.I.P Sue. x
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Reblogged this on Author Steve Boseley – Half a Loaf of Fiction and commented:
I ‘liked’ this post as there was no other suitable option. Sue was one of the many that have helped me along my own journey. R.I.P. Sue
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I beautiful and heartfelt tribute to our dear friend, Sue.
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Reblogged this on beetleypete and commented:
Jim says it all-via Tallis Steelyard- about the tragic loss of the lovely Sue Vincent. This community will be poorer without her, and she will always be remembered by anyone who encountered her on her blog, and in her writing. RIP, dear Sue.
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This is a beautiful tribute Jim that I’m sure Sue would have appreciated.
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I wrote it when she sent me the email saying she might have a week to live, and sent it to her for permission to publish it when the time came
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💔
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Reblogged this on By Hook Or By Book and commented:
Our blogging friend, Sue Vincent who touched countless lives with her grace, humor, and beautiful writing passed away yesterday. I have to share this heartfelt tribute from Jim, who perfectly says what I don’t think I could have put into words. R.I.P. Sue💔
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What a wonderful tribute. Well done!
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Thank you. She did so much for others, it’s the least I could do
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Jim, your words have touched my heart. Thank you for reading our heart’s words and putting them to paper. You are a true gentleman. ❤️
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It is the least a gentleman could do
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I’ve added my thoughts and popped your link into the bottom of my post. I’ve not visited you in a long time. I need to stop by more often. ❤
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Do you prefer your wine chilled or at room temperature? 🙂
Seriously Sue touched people, and everybody has their own words. For some they know what they want to say but because of their own grief they struggle to say them. It is the duty of those of us who have managed to write something to get it out there. That’s why found your thoughts so moving.
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You are so right, Jim. Sue’s poetry always found a way into my heart. I’m reading her books right now. Her esoteric journey mirrors many of my own excursions. We will remember her through her poems and writing. ❤
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Thank you for this tribute, Jim! May she rest in peace! Michael
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A fitting tribute to a wonderful person who touched all of our hearts.
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Thank you. I think she would have been touched by the genuine outpouring of grief
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Such a lovely tribute for a lovely lady. I did not know her as well as many others, but I keenly feel her passing. I pray she is at peace.
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Reblogged this on I didn't have my glasses on…. and commented:
An amazing woman and friend from afar – she will be greatly missed by many
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what a lovely tribute to sue
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Such sad news, but a beautiful tribute. She will definitely be missed.
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I have reblogged. Such a wonderful tribute beautifully penned.
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Thank you
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Cheers. Such a sad day.
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A beautiful tribute to an amazing poet, woman and human. She lives on in memory and poetry. There is a new star that shines brightly in the evening sky. 💖🌟
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what a beautiful tribute to an amazing woman…she will be missed…
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Lovely moving tribute. You speak for so many on this sad day.
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I have been expecting this sad news. You wrote so beautifully of her. Thank you for that.
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When we were arranging for her place in my current blog tour we swapped several emails back and forth and I commented that, “Tallis Steelyard keeps muttering in my ear that with four good lads and a two seater sedan chair we could have you out of there and on the road north to civilisation.”
Her comment sums her up, “My bag is packed “
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Love that….
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Beautifully put Jim , it’s not fair is it Sue will be dearly missed. 💜💜🦋
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she will be
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Reblogged this on willowdot21 and commented:
Thank you Jim for these beautiful honest thoughts.
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Thank you for this beautiful tribute to a wonderful writer, poet and soul who has been loved and appreciated by many. Her words will live on in her beautiful writings. May God bless her soul. My heart hurts ❤
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There are no words, even for us who play with words every day 😦
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You are so sadly right Jim 😦
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Thanks very much for your loving words.
Missing Sue greatly here in Ireland.
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While the bells are tolling the news across the blogging universe, the vast silence and emptiness she leaves is deafening.
We shall have to pick up and travel on in her stead. Not an easy task.
A wise old soul who lighted our way for as long as she was allowed.
Thanks – to you both
Finely done
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She left us a memory of how it could be done with grace, her footsteps are fresh in the grass
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Such sad news ❤
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yes 😦
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A beautiful tribute to Sue, Jim. I’m glad she got to read it too. Thank you.
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I felt she ought to. There are places you must stand alone, but they’re not so bleak if they know others are watching your back for you
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😊
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A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. Thank you, Jim, for honouring Sue’s legacy. Bless your heart. xo
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What else could I do?
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Sad news indeed, Jim, but a fitting tribute most eloquently stated. She will be dearly missed.
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She will indeed Ken.
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Beautifully written. I thank you for giving us a poignant, reflective focus on a woman who enjoyed a wide reach and meaningful impact.
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So sad to hear.
I knew her not but through your words I miss her so
We all will die, we all will cry but not in vain for your words, her words will survive.
Such a beautiful tribute you ❤
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It is a strange world, we know people well who we’ve never met and we miss people desperately who never darkened our door. Each of us must pick up the candle and carry it forward, striving to be the greatest of creatures, the decent person.
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Yes!
She must have been such a lovely person. I wish I had known her – but I can – thru her writing and the words written of her. Wonderful
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I’m so sorry to hear of Sue’s passing Jim. She was taken too soon. I had the pleasure of meeting Sue in person and feel sad that she could not continue to be the creative, lovely, supportive and magical soul she has alway been. Rest in Peace Sue. Your words live on.
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Thank you for the beautiful tribute to Sue.
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How perfectly pitched for one so beautifully attuned. Thank you Jim
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A beautiful tribute to, lament for, and upholding of a brilliant light, Jim. Her light warmed so many of us, and her words, as she prepared for death, moved me greatly, while still teaching, still reaching. Thanks for this.
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Reblogged this on Cynthia Reyes and commented:
A beautiful tribute to, lament for, and upholding of the light that Sue Vincent shone across the world.
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This is a beautiful tribute, Jim, and you’re right, Sue’s legacy is her poet’s tongue. May her words live for generations to come ❤
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She will be heard by generations as yet unborn
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A lovely and heartwarming tribute to Sue. God Bless her soul. xoxo
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amen
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Reblogged this on The Showers of Blessings and commented:
A beautiful tribute to Sue Vincent from Jim Webster. Thank you, Jim, for speaking for all of us and let Sue know what you were doing before her passing. She held all our love with her.
Sue lived a courageous life. She was still writing when her legs were too weak to stand up. She showed us to be true to ourselves and be vulnerable. She didn’t complain about her dying but continued to value her living.
Sue, you lived a life greater than life itself. We all missed you tremendously and we’re thankful for the precious words you left behind!
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One of her last comments in an email to me was ‘my bag is packed’
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Yes, indeed, Jim. Her bag was packed with the outpouring love around the world. She passed with the tenderness knowing she will live in our hearts.
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🙂
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You did a beautiful job with this post, Jim. I am terribly sad and I am glad I was able to do something for her to make her lasts weeks better. I also have five of her lovely poems in a forthcoming anthology, as you have said here, poets and writers never really die, they live on through their words.
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Thanks Roberta. I asked her to start my current blog tour. She always did and I couldn’t not ask her. So she emailed back to say the blog was set up in case she wasn’t about.
I told her that if I went to the trouble of putting together a blog tour I expected her to hang around and enjoy it, not go sloping off.
Of all the things, I remember her humour and the banter we had backwards and forwards over the years
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Yes, I was also in touch with Sue over email and she was a great supporter of my work too. I am already missing her very much. I finished her new book last night and had hoped she would enjoy my review. I shall now post it tomorrow as a tribute to Sue and her writing.
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Yes, I think it is important to keep the reviews and her work circulating.
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Such a beautiful tribute.
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She was worth it
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Thanks, Jim. A lovely tribute, and it’s heart-warming to know that she got to read it as well. Thanks for sharing it with all of us. It won’t be the same without her. ♥
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Our job is to each do our little bit to fill the gap. Then, not only will we not forget her, but we’ll do what she did and help bring on those coming behind.
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Reblogged this on Just Olga and commented:
Sad news about Sue Vincent’s passing and a beautiful tribute by Jim Webster.
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Our hearts are heavy with the passing of this amazing woman. But she will live on through her inspiring words and through her wisdom so selflessly shared. We will all miss this earth Angel. Thank you for a wonderful tribute, Jim.
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